When I am interviewed about my novel Back to One, I am often asked if it is a romantic love story. I sense what I am being asked—is it steamy and passionate? No, it’s not a romance novel but it is a love story. Let me explain the difference because the answer is a bit more complex than you imagine.
A love story I see as life, and the life one is living. It is sweet, real, and, in essence, who we are. We live love stories every day. From the moment of our birth and the relationship between child and parent is formed, we are surrounded by these love stories. So our first love story is with our family. It will continue with our own children as well. And then there is the love story of friendship.
Friendship the Ultimate Love Story
Friendship and love are deeply intertwined. They are symbiotic. One cannot have a good friendship without, on some level, respecting and loving that person. One can’t have love without the foundation of an abiding, trusted friendship. Even with our life partners, there must be a friendship before love can develop. It is often the friendship that holds couples together. Once the initial spark has fizzled it is the laughter and sharing of a well-grounded friendship that keeps couples together…that keeps the love alive.
Knowing, and most deeply feeling all this drew me to Cate and Kyle. How can such a unique friendship survive being scrutinized by cynics and naysayers? Because by developing an honest and enduring connection with another human being—fighting the odds together, supporting each other’s hopes and dreams—Cate and Kyle reap the best of friendships…and, of course, a true love story.
Romance is not necessary. As a matter of fact, it can limit the evolution of this love story. Placing it in a small box of intense, but not necessarily genuine, emotion.
A love story is simple and quiet, peaceful even facing difficult times. It is loyal and selfless and fills one with understanding and compassion. A love story is exquisite and unassuming at the same time.
The journey of Back to One is not unlike our own. We pursue love and wholeness in life. We often search for the right people to make life worth living. Ironically, they are already all around us, shaping us, nurturing our very soul.
Answering the original question: Back to One is a love story of deep friendship. And Cate and Kyle’s story is and will be throughout all of the Back to One series an admirable friendship revealing the heart of perfect love.
Wishing you the best love story of all…your life.
Antonia Gavrihel